Today we are launching a campaign to help us “plant a writing garden” for military women in Jacksonville, for veterans, military spouses and partners, and caregivers. We’ve launched a GoFundMe Campaign to gather the seed money we need to conduct research on the specific needs of this community. Please consider helping by going to our funding site, GoFundMe/MilitaryWomen, where you can find more information about our program.
But don’t take my word for it. Please, listen to this excellent podcast from the storytelling group called The MOTH, in which 97-year-old woman Dawn Seymour tells her story, about how she, too, a veteran of World War II, planted a garden that has finally blossomed. Dawn’s Story.
I was intrigued when I saw a robin on my front lawn this morning. I’d seen a flock of them on New Year’s Day, gliding skillfully across a crisp blue sky. But when one showed up practically at my front door today, I thought it might have a special message for me. So I looked up the symbolism for robins in my animal totem book.
Yep. Important message! Here’s what it said: “This wonderful bird is a traditional herald of spring.” Perfect! That aligns with the theme for our Spring Series: “Cultivating Your Inner Garden.”
It looks like a robin will be our guide!
The book went on to say, “When a robin comes into your life, you can expect new growth to occur in every area of your life. Its cheery song reflects a need to sing your own song … if you wish to experience that growth.” Wow! Sounds like developing your writer’s voice to me.
Finally, it said that the powder-blue color of the robin’s egg is associated with the throat, and the power of using your voice creatively. It reflects “the innate ability of those with this totem to create new growth in their life.” In other words, each of us has the power to transform ourselves, and the robin will show you the way. (Just like the robin that guided Mary’s transformation in The Secret Garden!)
So, all you Women Writers out there, I do hope that I will see you in the circle this spring as we continue on our personal writing journeys. I cordially invite you to come and enjoy our curriculum, which will include creative writing craft and plenty of inspiration and structure to strengthen your writing practice in 2015. (BTW, guys are invited to attend our Hike + Write event at UNF on March 7!)
The Early Bird Gets the Worm
The robin also reminds me that the early bird gets the worm, right? Some folks have already signed up for our Spring Series, which starts on January 21. That’s great! Please sign up today to save a spot for yourself!
Enjoy art and writing? You can also register for our Art + Soul Series, on alternate Saturdays from 10-12 for six weeks, starting January 31. This wonderful course will also focus on cultivating our inner garden, and promises to be a rich and fruitful series. What the heck, sign up for both! :-)
Not sure yet, and want to know more? Come to our Spring Sampler on January 14! You’ll get to see why a Women Writing for (a) Change writing circle is a magical place to both develop and challenge your writing practice.
To register, please just click HERE for the Spring Series and HERE for the Art + Soul Series. Or, sign up for the Sampler right HERE. I’m sticking with 12 spots in each class, so please register as soon as you can to hold your spot. And do encourage your friends and fellow writers to attend as well!
A Wonder-filled First Year!
What an exciting first year for Women Writing for (a) Change, Jacksonville! I cannot tell you how grateful I am to everyone who has a part of it. Working in this community this past year has changed my life in remarkable ways. I especially appreciate our writers and their stories, courage, and transformation. I am also grateful for the support of the Jacksonville community, and the larger national circle of Women Writing for (a) Change, from my mentors to my fellow facilitators. They have each given generously to help me launch Women Writing for (a) Change, Jacksonville, in 2014. For a photo retrospective, check out the photo collection on our FB page. (And “Like” us if you haven’t already!)
Our Public ReadAround in December on the beautiful grounds of the UU Church of Jacksonville was very successful, with women writers well-represented in words and collage art and even song. We also supported Rethreaded with brisk sales of their products, and raised $390 toward our outreach efforts this coming year. Thank you to everyone who helped, from our donors to our attendees and supporters to, of course, our women writers.
Big Plans for 2014
I’m looking forward to what 2015 has in store for us! Just a few of the activities in the works are:
- A January presentation to the American Legion to help raise funds for our Pilot Project for Women Veterans (email me if you’d like to donate or get involved);
- Communications and volunteer support for the Generation Works program on February 7 with Donna Orender (email me if you’d like to help)
- Our first “Write Around the Corner” event at UNF for a “Write + Hike” (register HERE now if you’d like to attend! Spots are filling fast!) This is a joint venture with the Sierra Club; men are welcome.
- A joint venture with the Downtown Library during Artwalk in March to showcase women writers (email me if you’d like to participate);
- More outreach programs with the DBW Policy Center for Girls, incarcerated women at the Community Transition Center, and Bosom Buddies at the Women’s Center;
- A possible joint venture with the UNF Women’s Center and the UNF Writing Center to bring our writing practices to UNF.
- Much, much more! (OK, not too much more, just the unplanned stuff that I’m staying open to.)
I hope to see you in one of our writing circles in 2015, and I look forward to growth and transformation as our robin guide shows us the way!
Don’t miss this opportunity to support us as we share the highlights of our “Heroine’s Journey” this past fall (the theme for our semester).
Here are the details:
What: Public ReadAround
When: Dec. 13, 2014
Time: 2-4 p.m.
Where: UU Church of Jacksonville, 7405 Arlington Expressway, Jacksonville, FL 32211
Support: This is a fund-raiser for our Outreach Programs as well as Rethreaded. We’ll have a silent action and holiday gifts from Rethreaded.
Register: RSVP on Meetup
Why now? Once a semester, we open our circle to a wider audience, so our words can be shared, heard and honored. But spots are limited, so don’t delay if you want to attend! You can register here. (Sorry, guys, women only.)
Can’t attend but would like to support us? You can support our Outreach Programs with incarcerated women and women veterans — among others — through our Spring 2015 GoFundMe Campaign. Your contribution will support facilitation of these circles as well as our other outreach efforts. Support us here.
Hello, Women Writers and Friends!grafHappy Labor Day! With school back in session and fall right around the corner, we’re planning exciting things here at Women Writing for (a) Change, Jacksonville!graf
New Classes this Fall
First of all, I’m SO excited that, due to the great response we’ve had to our Spring and Fall Series, I’m adding two new classes this fall: “Writing with Art + Soul,” and “Maintain Your Writer’s Shape.” These classes are based on classes currently running at the Cincinnati School, so I know they will be wildly successful.
Here’s the scoop. “Writing with Art + Soul,” is a 6-class series combining collage plus writing (inspired by the SoulCollage® process). Or, just want to “drop in” sometime? You can sign up for the fast-paced, one-hour drop-in “Maintain Your Writer’s Shape” classes. You’ll get your writing whipped into shape in no time! Classes are on alternate Fridays over lunch. Check out our Meetup site for all the details and to register.
In the meantime, we just had our Fall Sampler last week, with a full class of 13 wonderful women writers. See the photos here: FB. We had a great session. And, we’ll be cranking up with our Fall Series: The Heroine’s Journey, starting September 10. (We’re full now, but, you can sign up for the waiting list.)
Circle Up to Celebrate Women!We’ve been out and about, celebrating women’s voices. In fact, seven of us Women Writers attended The Circle at the Alhambra on Monday, August 25. This special presentation, brought to Jacksonville as a benefit for Generation W, focuses on how a group of women circled up to support each other. That’s right up our alley! It was great. See the photos on FB here.grafWe were also well-represented at the Women’s Center of Jacksonville’s 19th Annual Celebration Gala on August 22, with five Women Writers attending to support the important work of the Center: Improving the lives of women here in Jacksonville. Check new photos on FB. Michelle Deluca, Meg Rohal, Jody Kamens, Cheryl Anthony and myself were there.graf
Outreach Efforts: The Circle is Spreading!Women RenewedWe’re excited to be back at the Women’s Center this fall to facilitate more writing circles through the Women Renewed program, serving formerly incarcerated women who are trying to find employment on the outside. A shout-out goes to Phenessa Harris, Gillian Ticehurst, Carrie Fuentes and Kenyatta for supporting these circles at the Women’s Center. They are doing good work!grPolicy Center for GirlsWe’re also pleased we’ll be conducting a circle for the Girls Council of the Dolores Barr Weaver Policy Center for Girls in September. The Girls Council members, selected from various agencies around the city, will participate in a writing circle as well as learn how Conscious Feminine Leadership principles can apply to their work together. The Girl’s Council is a leadership group empowering girls here in Jacksonville.grafIncarcerated WomenLast week I also met with Nancy Laughter at the Community Transition Center (for the downtown jail) to see how our writing circles and other women’s support groups I’m connected to may be able to enhance programs they are currently offering inside. I am hopeful I can bring new resources to that community.grafBusiness CommunicatorsOn the business side, I met recently with Cynthia Weiss in the Public Relations office at The Mayo Clinic, and we discussed workshop opportunities for the local chapter of the International Association of Business Communicators, including a class called “Writing as a Tool of Conscious Leadership” (working title). I love it! I plan to start working on that curriculum ASAP!grafWomen’s Services CoalitionOn August 26, I attended “Trapped in the Triangle” at the WJCT Community Room. This event was sponsored by the Women’s Services Coalition of Northeast Florida, (promo story starts at 27:30) and focuses on how addiction, mental health and abuse manifests in our community of women. I’m fired up after hearing these presentations! BTW, one of the panelists was Cheryl Anthony, a member of our writing community.graf
Join the Circle!Hope I see you at the Fall Series or one of the new classes this fall.
You can register here now: “Writing with Art + Soul,” and “Maintain Your Writer’s Shape”grafAs I said to my daughter the other night — right before she started her new classes as a sophomore at FSU: “It’s a new page, new chapter.”grafI’m looking forward to experiencing it with you, here in the growing community of Women Writing for (a) Change, Jacksonville.
Gather the women; save the world. — Jean Shinoda Bolen
It’s been a busy spring and summer for Women Writing for (a) Change here in Jacksonville. We finished up our Spring Series in early May, held our first Public ReadAround mid-May, and began our Summer Series at the Women’s Center in early June.
In the mix of all that, I presented a workshop at the National Association of Poetry Therapy in Scottsdale called Song of the Soul, which I repeated in Austin on June 5 and will conduct again in New York City in August. (My ukulele plays a key role.)
Plus, we also held our first ever Feed Your Creative Soul Art and Writing Retreat at the Evervess Studio in May, mixing art and writing, a little dance, and even some delicious organic food from Down to Earth Farm here in Jax. Maybe you heard our promo spot on NPR’s Morning Edition? If not, listen to it on our media page here.
Speaking of publicity, it was fun to get another article published on us, this time in Jacksonville Magazine (here’s the link). Also had fun presenting on compassion for PechaKucha Night in St. Augustine on May 14.
I’ve got one more session planned for the Summer Series at the Women’s Center, in which I’m writing with the formerly incarcerated women of the Women Renewed program. They are getting training and finding employment to transition to self-sufficiency “beyond bars,” in the outside world. (Thanks so much to all of you who have funded our effort with the GoFundMe campaign!)
This is a magical, miraculous experience, let me tell you. I am so amazed by the tenderness, the thoughtfulness, the poetry of these women. Whatever assumptions I may have had going into this (and I tried not to have any) have been shattered. They so totally and completely GET it. And their writing ROCKS.
In fact, we’re going to have a “private” ReadAround at the Women’s Center next week, after we finish our last session Monday. So watch for some posts on that, I hope.
I was especially thrilled because my daughter, Camille, has been able to assist me at several of these circles, which has been good for her and for me. She can see what I’m doing and get exposure to a world that she has not seen up close before. This is good for everyone.
Not to mention, I finished two videos on The Conscious Feminine and posted to the media page on our site. Check them out here; I’d love your feedback. I also decided recently to become the Regional Coordinator for Gather The Women, an international group of women who are holding sacred circles to promote peace and prosperity for all, based on the book The Millionth Circle by Jean Shinoda Bolen. I’ll be holding a regional event in March 2015 in honor of National Women’s History Month. More to come on all of that.
I am looking forward to our Fall Series starting September 10, 2014, for which we actually only have a couple spots left. Register by August 1 for the Early Bird Rate of $300. You can register here. You can also sign up for the Fall Sampler on Wednesday, August 27, which should be a lot of fun. Register for that here.
But the MOST TIMELY reason I’m writing is because I wanted to encourage you to check out a NEW page of our website, which is called Our Writing, in which we feature some of the women writers who have participated in our circles. Check out “You Found Me” (tender and lovely) and “Naturally Curly Hair” (hilarious). I guarantee you will enjoy them.
I hope all of you are enjoying a slightly slower pace this summer. After a spate of travel, I myself spent the last couple days in my garden, catching up on mulching and weeding and filling up all of my bird feeders. The bluebirds have built a nest in my new bluebird box, and the eggs have hatched! I’m thrilled to rest and enjoy the haze of summer as I sit on my garden bench and dream of new ideas and more circles of Women Writing for (a) Change.
Peace to all of you.
p.s. check out more info and stories on our new Facebook Page! And please “like” us if you want regular updates.
Part Two of a Two-Part Series on The Conscious Feminine
I hear talk these days of “Conscious Leadership,” at least on the web. Sounds pretty good, doesn’t it? But I think we need more than “Conscious Leadership” to save the world. I think we need “Conscious Feminine Leadership.”
I recently posted my views on the Conscious Feminine. As a follow up, here’s a talk on Conscious Feminine Leadership that I also gave at my church. These are my views only. Take what you like, and leave the rest.
I do invite you, however, to share your ideas on this. Please consider posting one “gift” and one “challenge” based on what you heard. Below the video, I’ve posted the responses the congregation gave after the service. I would love to hear your thoughts as well.
Spoiler alert: I do call out the system that has created the Angela Coreys of this world. I feel obliged to speak my voice. Please consider adding yours.
|Circle round [at the end]||Not going for profit|
|To use the word “allow” in my leadership work||To continue to “allow” both for myself and others|
|Tolerance||Give it a wider voice|
|Forgiveness is a gift||Letting go is a challenge|
|Base goals on “values”|
|Gift and challenge is the same. As a manager in a place constantly “evaluating,” to make the time to share freely and without judgement the beautiful gifts I see in each of my employees.||Gift and challenge is the same. As a manager in a place constantly “evaluating,” to make the time to share freely and without judgement the beautiful gifts I see in each of my employees.|
|The greatest gift is love.|
|Heart disease is a woman’s biggest killer. Be Vegan. Reduce risk. vegan.com|
|Allowing depth, diversity — not having to be uni-dimensional||To not create sameness in the effort to create equality|
|The view of the beautiful quilt is a gift.||Challenge is trying to sing new and difficult song.|
|The topic. No Fear. [heart symbol]||Inertia. Status quo.|
|Celebrating enoughedness.||Listening. Sitting down. Thanks…Carlos.|
|My daughter will enter a more enlightened world.||Significant challenges ahead.|
|Standing for ourselves.||Standing for ourselves.|
|My ears to listen.||To do a sit down with a woman in my life.|
|Love and fellowship.||Sustaining focus and motivation.|
|The feeling of love.||Going up to say my grandfather is dying.|
|Pleased that Melody is running and you are dancing.|
|The idea of leading from the inside out.||The general concept of standing up for “feminine” in a male-dominated world|
|Having people like you.||Being a man in a man’s world.|
|Compacting one’s thoughts.|
|Balance: Dearest subject to me!||Having my parents-in-law with us today. I know they have different view.|
|Harmony: The balance of the notes in our lives organized to provide beauty||Appreciate all of the notes because without all it is just noise.|
‘Heard last night’ at the Women’s Center
I’ve held several circles at the Women’s Center of Jacksonville so far this summer for the Women Renewed program participants. These are formerly incarcerated women who are finding hope and new life through this program, which gives them coping skills and employment opportunities.
One thing I’ve learned from this work is, for women to stay out of jail, they need three things: a job, support, and their GED. The Women’s Center helps them with all three. Thank you, to those of you who have contributed to the fund that allows me to do this work with them, which I hope is giving them additional skills of self-awareness to help them make this transition.
Our theme for this series is, The Heroine’s Journey, based on the book by the same name. It’s about our spiritual journey as we move away from our mothers and away from our feminine self, experience pain and suffering as a result, and then come back Home again.
I’m struck, when I hold the circle, by how quickly they “get it.” That they notice, and appreciate, the sacredness of the circle, and quickly settle into it.
Below are two found poems they agreed I could publish.
The first is to the prompt, “What do I want to keep that my mother (or grandmother) passed on to me?”
She Preached Good Posture
She preached good posture.
I can’t let her go.
She sewed my cheerleading outfit.
I can’t let her go.
Being complete is to be whole.
I can’t let her go.
I am needed. I have a job to do.
I can’t let her go.
The love my mother had.
I can’t let her go.
The long suffering my mother endured.
I can’t let her go.
The ability to know when to be a woman.
I can’t let her go.
She had a very kind heart.
I can’t let her go.
I lost the mom I once knew.
I can’t let her go.
I was fortunate to have a second mother.
I can’t let her go.
I can’t separate myself from my mother. I’m her baby.
I can’t let her go.
— Found poem, Women Renewed participants, May 27, 2014
Last week, we read the Poem, She Let Go, by Rev Rose Safire. Read the full poem here. Then we wrote to the prompt, “What do I want to let go of?”
Here’s what I heard:
New Page, New Journey
New page, new journey.
No, no, no, not a new chapter, a new book of life.
Can’t stop, won’t stop.
You can feel that breeze again.
I can see the moon and the stars at night.
I have let that day go.
I’m surprised I have the patience for this.
I won’t give up for anything.
I’m not in this room right now.
The anxiety of the feeling that I may be violated.
I know that God has me.
Trouble is so easy to get into, and so difficult to get out of.
Letting go is not an easy thing to do.
Sometimes you gotta lose to win again.
You gotta take a leap of faith;
Listen to your inner self.
— Found poem, Women Renewed participants, June 2, 2014